HATERS ARE GOING TO HATE
You’re on a roll, things are going great!!! Maybe you are losing weight, getting fit. Or maybe you are getting promoted and you career is going just great. If you are an entrepreneur, it may be that you’re business is really starting to roll. And then it happens…
That one person, that with a few harsh words, makes your whole world, your endorphin high, your success bubble that you are riding on, come crashing down.
I know that if you are like me, that you have experienced this. That one person that projects, his or her resentment/anger/negative opinion on you and just like that your self doubt creeps in. I’m going to help you protect yourself from haters by asking yourself a few simple questions so you can get your high vibe back. No more self doubt, self sabotage and insecurity.
- Does this person’s opinion really truly matter?
- Are any of their points valid?
- How well does this person know you?
- Is there a reason this person would intentionally set out to hurt you?
- Is anything they are saying true?
You see when people project their anger, resentment or harsh comments, its never about you, its always about them. You see they may be jealous of your success and don’t even realize that it is manifesting itself in this manner. They may be sabotaging you because if they are your friend (some friend huh?) they may be feeling scared as to how your new life/success may affect them and your relationship with them. Fear presents itself in many ways and this is just one of them. Try to have compassion for them and not strike back even if you’re blood is boiling.
The most important thing I can advise is to literally take the criticism with a grain of salt. There are always going to be haters in the world. Good, that means they are watching you. But when you are true to yourself, following your passion, being the best person that you can be, then fuck them and their anger, jealousy and animosity, because you know its unfounded. Instead of getting angry offer a prayer to the Universe that these people find their way and heal from whatever wounds that are making them react to you in this way.
You’ve worked hard for all your achievements, big or small. Embrace and celebrate them. The haters are always going to hate. Do you think everybody loves the pope? Just sayin…
Much Love,
Maria
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