Divorce is daunting. It’s an experience that is unlike any other in your life. And to be very honest, there are some experiences that came from this process that I wish that somebody had told me. I want to make sure that if you are going through a Divorce or...
I mean Universe can you give me a break?!!!! Well, well, well. So here I am at 53 and in a position that does not necessarily scream successful!!! OK let me back up, I should say it does not scream the life I imagined. Let me clarify. Recently my boyfriend of 4 years...
WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO DECIDE IT’S YOUR LIFE? The million dollar question. Today I listened to a podcast and it really rang true for me and I am sure it will ring true for others. In a nutshell this woman was going to school to be a doctor because her...
You know in life there are so many lessons that we all have to learn and go through. Lord knows in my time, I have had my fair share of them. I used to question why me? Eventually I turned it around to “Why not me”. Change is so hard, so...
BUY YOUR OWN DAMN FLOWERS! It’s that time of year again. The dreaded day of Love. St. Valentine’s Day. I mean you thought Christmas as a single woman was bad, right? But hold on for the wave of loneliness and sadness you are about to experience on this day...
THE DECLUTTERING PHENOMENOM Unless you are dead or have been hiding under a rock, I am sure that you have seen all the hype about the decluttering/organizing guru, Marie Kondo. That lady has all kinds of tips and tricks to get you organized. But do you know that...
The pain is literally a physical pain. You hurt so much you think you might actually break in two. That how much your break up hurts. It has manifested itself into a physical pain. And right now all you want to do is curl up in a soft...
SELF CARE, TRULY IS THE BEST CARE! So you’ve stopped caring for yourself. What’s your excuse? Depressed over weight gain? Depressed about a marital breakup? Depressed but not even sure why? I hear ya!!!! I’ve been there. But when you are in a rut, stuck, confused and...
Yes that’s right. Stop making resolutions! Why you may ask? Because what you are doing is simply putting off the inevitable. Look we all procrastinate, me included, so I feel ya. I know it may seem like there is never a right time. Right time to have...
Never in my life would I think that I would be grateful to get divorced. I mean seriously? What’s there to be grateful for? Well for starters, how about my self-esteem? How about not living in fear anymore? How about not wondering where he is or who he’s with? Don’t...
